Humor with a side of Nervous Breakdown

I haven’t written in awhile forever. At least it seems like an eternity. To me. I encountered (and I use this term loosely) a major life crisis a few days after I wrote my last post. It was right after my birthday. A wonderful birthday. Four of my closest and dearest friends came from all over the country to visit me. We had a marvelous time making new memories while paying tribute to the old ones.  There were talks of kids, dating, husbands, careers and this strange little trip of a life. 

We all fell right in like 20 years had never passed. Just what I needed.

I can’t go into to it right now, my mid-life crisis, even though all of my favorite bloggers do. I thought about chronicling it, but could never write a coherent post three bottles glasses of wine in. I’m just waiting to find more humor in the situation. No one died, no one got sick…So no worries. Life will and does, go on.

Years ago, I used to attend this great little thing called Cosmic Coffee at my children’s school. (Keep reading – why – because I’m making a point, not just a strange segue). It was a small Montessori school and these were not your regular coffees. They were led by a phenomenal therapist, Michael Rebel. There were many skeletons from everyone’s closet which were willingly brought out into the light to dance circles around us. There were tears. For some hopefully, closure or at least clarity. I rarely spoke. Well, I rarely shared any story of my own. (Lest my own skeletons might have come out wielding machetes or  eating others’ flesh.) But of course I offered my two cents on other people’s twirling bag of bones and I argued, mainly with the therapist, a lot. I also cracked jokes. Constantly. I had a good friend tell me, “Right when we’re getting somewhere with a story or it just gets deep; you throw a joke in there. It’s really annoying.”

But that’s me — annoying and humorous. And that’s the way I deal with life’s craziness. Humor. If you can’t laugh at your situation, then you truly are at your end. At least in my book. 

So I guess I’m just waiting for some humor in my own situation. I do crack jokes about it to friends who know what’s going on.  If you can’t poke fun at yourself then what’s the point.  A few weeks ago I was at this great party. Two friends of mine, who are dating, started to get into a fight. So I barged right in  politely  interrupted and said:

“Are you kidding me, you two are fighting right now? Hold on, you really want to see a fight? Someone go grab Jason and I’ll show you a fight.”

They laughed, snickered and let their argument go. (Or just buried it to have it explode at a later time — ah –romance and relationships.) But the tension was diffused…Then I went on to parody some parents at my son’s tennis match. Good times. Humor through the pain. So what if it sometimes turns into tears. At least at some point you’re laughing.


11 responses to “Humor with a side of Nervous Breakdown

  1. Glad you are writing again, I missed you. Humor is what gets you through, said with experience. Example, as I was in the helicopter being airlifted to Orlando while having a heart attack, (which I really didn’t have time for) I looked at the helicopter nurse and said, “I should be twitting this!” She looked at me and said you “tweet”? I said, No, but I should learn. If you don’t find humor then life is too gray.

  2. I soooo love reading your blog….U so know I get your humor … I miss hanging out w you guys!

  3. Celeste Borengasser

    Great post! I hope you find the humor soon and that the problem gets better. I totally agree with you about laughing at the situation too! I only wish I could have been there to watch you argue with a therapist. Are there any videos?

    • No video fortunately! He enjoyed it and expected it though 🙂 I least I think he did! I hope you and the family are doing well. When are you coming back stateside? Miss you !!

  4. Well…we all know there is always “some” truth to all humor but wouldn’t life be miserable without it??? I love your humor and as I always say “laughter heals the soul”!!! Hmmm?? Maybe some other famous philosopher said it first but, It’s soooo true!! I’m glad your back girlfriend!! 🙂

  5. So glad to see you are back at it with your wildly humorous and well written blog! It really makes me miss you though- Sending you Peace and Love from the Mountains ~

  6. Sandi Andrews

    Jules, I was aware of your problems but knowing your parents, I had faith that all would work out well. This is the first time to check your blog in a long time. Our house burnt down in January and I almoat died from my burns and my 21 year old handicap daughter was succumbed from the fumes. Our loss has made us appreciate what we have left, and there are no problems, only solutions. Love to your beautiful family.

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